Every once in a while, a client will actually send me a piece of writing he’s done – I always find these really interesting and insightful when it comes time to think about the varying ways in which one can spin the ideas in the story into hypnotic sessions.

Most men write about a kind of erotic ideal – hypnosis can bring this woman (or man in some cases) very vividly to life for the subject, and this is always a fun direction to go in.

But sometimes the clues are really subtle and really minor. Like a minor throwaway that the author thought fairly unimportant but important enough to include. I’ve found those mental openings, whether doing physical or mental play with someone, in very unlikely spots.

Even when a story isn’t necessarily my cup of tea, erotically, as long as it’s not something I find personally offensive in some way (and I have limits, yes. A person with no limits is called a psychopath) there’s never a downside to taking the time or FINDING the time on a particularly busy weekend, to read this kind of material.

It’s just important for the writer/client to be as respectful of the Domme as she is of the read. A guideline is not a script – if you are looking for someone willing to work with a script and stick to your vision completely, you must convey this. Personally, I can almost globally say that’s of no interest to me. Once and once only, a cuckold fetishist had a script I found SO sexy and so over the top that I was fine doing it. I’m not going to forbid myself a good time in the interest of being able to say I was always in control and NEVER did a client request.  That’s as unfulfilling to me as doing frequent client requests.

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