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Um, are any other female hypnotists as WTF about this as I am?

It doesn’t cast Milt in a flattering light but I think it’s the blogger more than Milt. That said, there’s no reason that one would think anyone would be more enlightened in the 50′s about female sexuality.  Virgin/Whore.  Shrinking Violet/Vagina Dentata. Oh, lucky her.

Yes, with a little paternalistic NLP there’s no reason a sexual abuse survivor can’t just skip away and enjoy sex, yipee, if you just use “you’re stupid” as a paradigm busting attention getter.

I can’t even believe what I’m seeing. Other NLP practitioners are sure to tell me no no you just don’t GET it, how empowering that model is – and I’m saying as a human being who believes that female sexuality has enough bullshit piled onto it that this is wrong wrong wrong on so many levels.  This isn’t an irrational fear of snakes or a big presentation that you need to get right – this is serious lifelong entrenched needs therapy *problem.* Simply switching this woman’s ruined pleasure for a vagina dentata isn’t giving her a sexuality she can actually really ENJOY – it’s switching a dysfunctional enjoyment model for another dysfunctional enjoyment model and patting yourself on the back.

I’m glad the case study went on to feel great. I’m curious to know if she went and got her PhD in the ahem, encouraging, climate of the time.

The fact that this model is being touted and re-used by a man in the field makes me question the validity of letting men treat women for anything ever – knowing what we do about rape/incest survival in 2010, feeling as I HOPE we do about female sexuality  and vaginas makes this into a hypnosis equivalent of humours and leeches.

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One of the things I love to do with feminization calls is to use the physical touchstones of the subject’s fetish as a physical means to induce, deepen, even anchor beahvior. The fact that stockings are such a HUGE fetish for so many people, their compact shape, their silky feel – they really make a fantastic erotic induction tool for hypnosis phone sessions. I have a number of hypnosis subjects who tuck stockings into their business travel luggage whenever and wherever they go. Nylon fetishists are very sensual and imaginative people often, the ideal candidates for erotic hypnosis in a sense. I often use a conversational approach, talking about their stocking collection, their stocking or pantyhose fetish, its origins and its characteristics, and as we discuss the topic, laden with hypnotic suggestion and induction tactics, the subject goes sweetly under for me – just like that.

I’m definitely always eager to work with feminization callers – crossdressers, sensualists, sissies, sissy maids, T-girls, transexuals, whatever your level of feminine interest or affiliation. Today is a great day to embark on a phone transformation and sissification adventure, aided by powerful hypnosis with a hypnodomme.

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He calls, totally lucid for a change. I almost have trouble recognizing him.

He calls simply to tell me how I’ve captured him, how I did it immediately, better, harder, faster than anyone ever before. He is dumbstruck, addicted, filled with the adoration/gratitude I deserve.

There’s more to life than cash.

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If there’s something topping my wishlist it’s donations for the following. No irony.

the st. james infirmary provides non-judgemental healthcare to sex workers, empowering them in this important aspect of their lives.

MADRE works for human rights, by working for women’s rights, empowering women and children in nations negatively affected by US policy. My favorite part? They partner with women ALREADY doing rights work for themselves and their OWN communties. From an article on site:

The women we work with may not be “experts” on gender oppression like Nicholas Kristof, but they are experts on the conditions of their own lives. They know what they need to guarantee survival for themselves and their families and what they need to do to improve things for the long-term. So there’s no need to airdrop women’s rights programs into poor and embattled communities. It makes a lot more sense to team up with the women who are already doing that work and provide the resources and training that they say is useful to effect the change they need.

Young Women’s Empowerment Project again, can you see a theme in regard to empowerment? Harm reduction approach to helping young sex workers, putting girls in charge of their own lives and destiny while providing resources.

Charity doesn’t have to be arrogant or distanced from the people it purports to help. People are truly their own best experts, and so, if you are feeling generosity inclined, don’t just buy me something, silly.

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This is really hot. I’ve posted it to every blog I keep I think. Props to Angela St. Lawrence for tweeting the exhibit. This is sexy, scary, messy, and I assert, gentlemen, hypnotic.

Looky.

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Every once in a while, a client will actually send me a piece of writing he’s done – I always find these really interesting and insightful when it comes time to think about the varying ways in which one can spin the ideas in the story into hypnotic sessions.

Most men write about a kind of erotic ideal – hypnosis can bring this woman (or man in some cases) very vividly to life for the subject, and this is always a fun direction to go in.

But sometimes the clues are really subtle and really minor. Like a minor throwaway that the author thought fairly unimportant but important enough to include. I’ve found those mental openings, whether doing physical or mental play with someone, in very unlikely spots.

Even when a story isn’t necessarily my cup of tea, erotically, as long as it’s not something I find personally offensive in some way (and I have limits, yes. A person with no limits is called a psychopath) there’s never a downside to taking the time or FINDING the time on a particularly busy weekend, to read this kind of material.

It’s just important for the writer/client to be as respectful of the Domme as she is of the read. A guideline is not a script – if you are looking for someone willing to work with a script and stick to your vision completely, you must convey this. Personally, I can almost globally say that’s of no interest to me. Once and once only, a cuckold fetishist had a script I found SO sexy and so over the top that I was fine doing it. I’m not going to forbid myself a good time in the interest of being able to say I was always in control and NEVER did a client request.  That’s as unfulfilling to me as doing frequent client requests.

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